Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts

Saturday, December 7, 2013

The American Dinner!

Rewind to September.  The International Students organization hosted a Finnish dinner.  Somehow my innocent offer to "help cook" at the next International student dinner transformed into "plan, shop, cook, and host" when another American also offered to help cook.

Which explains why one Saturday morning found us in a common kitchen, surrounded by towers of canned goods. I was chopping a mountain of onions while Alistair browned onions and Paulina scrubbed potatoes.  "What can I do?" Jonathan asked.  "You can open the crushed tomatoes" I said, searching for my pocket knife.  I knew I'd left it somewhere and none of us had brought a real can opener.  Fifteen cans later, plus 15 cans of kidney beans and pounds of green peppers, onions, and ground beef later, our chili for 50 was simmering on the stove.


As it simmered, we hung stars from the ceiling, rearranged furniture, and set the tables.  Five o'clock and the place was decorated and the food almost ready.  We were ahead of the game.  I slipped home to change and got back in time to help with the appetizers.




As guests came through the door I stuck a name on their back, giggling a bit at some of the mismatches.  "Oh, this one's perfect for you" as I stuck Princess Jasmine on a very decidedly not princess like man's back.  They were instructed to figure out who they were by asking questions, and then to find the person who had their match.  It was our cleverly designed ploy to require guests to mingle.  And it worked.  :)  The food helped too.  Chips and dip and pigs in a blanket seemed like perfect American party foods, but we had to supplement them with the most quintessential American ingredient we could think of: peanut butter.
The quintessential American ingredient in 2 very school child forms  
The room, ready for guests.


Mingling

Once everyone had found their partner, we lined them up for contra-dancing.  Alistair (my token American friend and partner in crime, or event planning, whichever the case might be) also happens to play the fiddle.  So, he explained the steps as we tried to maneuver around each other in a room most certainly not designed for 25 couples to dance in.  We had to restart from the beginning multiple times before we made it through the first set of steps, but when we managed it successfully, the whole group spontaneously burst into applause.

Some of the awesome people who helped
Ice thoroughly broken now, we sent people in to find a seat and served chili and baked potatoes.  I found an empty seat at a table of French speakers from France, Switzerland and Belgium to eat some chili, then got up to help get dessert ready.  While pancakes aren't traditionally a dessert, everyone loves them, and most of the rest of the world eats crepes, not our fat, puffy, wonderful pancakes.  To make things even better, we served them with maple syrup and whipped cream.  I joined a table with people from Azerbaijan, Chile, Romania and Albania for the dessert course.  And may or may not have finished off all the whipped cream in the bowl when the pancakes were gone. . .

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

The me that I'm becoming

Today, I made myself arepas for breakfast, and then sat and read my Spot books (in Finnish) while I ate.  There was something about that juxtaposition of cultures that got me thinking.  Because for me, making and eating an arepa is more than just cooking and eating.  It's an act of identifying with the Colombian "side" of my identity, connecting with friends far away, remembering- learning to make arepas for the asado (cook out) we had in La Calera with Bibi, the laughter in the kitchen at Luz y Vida as we made breakfast for 30,  the open bag of harina pan that Alex used to pat his arepas into shape, listening to Edwin and his brother and cousin discuss politics around the breakfast table, making arepas rellenas for dinner with Andreina when she came to visit me in the States.

And I realize how much my time in Colombia changed me. Not just in ways that are easy to explain, like memories, and eating new foods.  But things that are so much harder to see, or even for me to identify.  I see the world differently.  I have more than one way of doing things depending on where I am and who I'm with.  My values have shifted.

And now, I'm learning a new language, in a new country, with a new culture. Somewhere in a powerpoint this week, I saw these sentences: "You can't learn a language without learning the culture, and you can't learn a culture without learning the language"  I'd agree, and I'd add that you can't learn a language and culture and remain the same.

My favorite poem pretty much says the same thing-

Aprender el inglés/Learning English  by Luis Alberto Ambroggio


Vida 
Para entenderme 
Tienes que saber español 
Sentirlo en la sangre de tu alma.
Si hablo otro lenguaje
Y uso palabras distintas
Para expresar sentimientos que nunca cambiarán
No sé 
Si seguiré siendo 
La misma persona

Life 
to understand me 
you have to know Spanish 
feel it in the blood of your soul.
If I speak another language
And use different words
For feelings that will always stay the same
I don’t know 
If I’ll continue being 
The same person

And that's what I wonder- who will I be when my time here is done?  How will Finland and everything I do and see and experience and learn here change me?